My friend, if I am asked when's the right time to determine the success and the success of someone? So, the answer is now still an early age. Really? Well I want to share a fact that has been widely studied by researchers of the world.
At the early age of 0-6 years, the brain is developing very fast up to 80 percent. At that age the brain to receive and absorb various kinds of information, do not see good and bad. That's the times in which their physical, mental and spiritual child will begin to form. Therefore, many who call this period as a golden period of children (golden age).
A study conducted by an expert in Child Development and Behavior of American named Brazelton says that the experience of children in the first months and years of life largely determines whether a child will be able to face challenges in life and whether he would show high enthusiasm to learn and succeed in the workplace.
Now, therefore, we as parents should take advantage of the golden child to give the character a good education for children. So that children can achieve success and success in life in the future. We as parents sometimes do not realize, our attitude to the child it will drop the child. For example, with the hit, giving pressure which in turn makes the child's negative attitude, low self-esteem or self-conscious, timid and did not dare to take risks, which in the end the characters will be brought until she grew up. Such characters as adults will become an obstacle for him to achieve and fulfill his desire.
Building a Character Since the Early Childhood Education
For example, can not become a public speaker because he was self-conscious or embarrassed. Not daring to take certain opportunities because he did not want to take the risk and fear of failure. In fact, if he is to be positive then the risk can be altered as a challenge to achieve success. You agree not it?
Many say our success is determined by how genius our brain. The more the more successful we are geniuses. The more we won the class championship title in a row, the more sukseslah us. Is this correct? Eit wait a minute!
I personally disagree with these assumptions. Facts prove, many successful people just do not get a good achievement in school, they do not get the champion class or occupy top positions in their schools. Why is that? Because the real success is not only determined by our own intelligence. But success proved to be more dominant is determined by the skill to bring up our emotional relationship with self, others and the environment. Moreover, that should not be left out is our spiritual relationship with God Almighty.
Did you know that the ability to build relationships with the three pillars (self, social, and God) is the characters who have successful people. And, let me tell you that the character is not entirely innate. Such characters can be formed. Wow, really? I say Yes! And at an early age children was formed the characters.
As we discussed earlier, that early childhood is the character development of physical, mental and spiritual child begins to form. At this early age, a child's character will be formed from the study and absorb from our behavior as parents and from the surrounding environment. In this age of mental developments took place very quickly. At that age children also become very sensitive and insensitive to learn and practice the things he sees, feels and listens from the environment. Therefore, positive environment that will shape the character of a positive and successful.
Then, how to build the character of children from an early age?
Character will be formed as a result of understanding the exact relationship experienced three of every human being (relationship triangle), namely the relationship with oneself (intrapersonal), with the environment (social relationships and environment), and the relationship with the Almighty God (spiritual). Each of these relationships will provide interpretation / understanding that eventually became values and beliefs of children.
How children understand the shape of that relationship will determine how the world treats children.
Understanding will negatively impact on the treatment of negative and positive understanding of their world will treat positively. To that end, Grow a positive understanding in children from an early age, one way to give confidence in children to make decisions for herself, to help children redirect their potential so they are better able to explore by itself, does not suppress either directly or subtly , and so on.
Familiarize children socialize and interact with the environment. Remember the choices on the environment largely determines the character formation of children. As the saying goes along with the perfume seller will participate fragrant, hanging out with stinking fish vendors will participate. Something like that, good and healthy environment will foster healthy and good character, and vice versa. And that can not be overlooked is building a spiritual relationship with God Almighty. Spiritual relationship with God Almighty awakened through the implementation and appreciation of worship rituals implemented in social life.
Well, now we understand why the building of character education of children from an early age is important. Early age is the age of gold, then take advantage of the golden age was the best. Early Childhood Education